Please rethink about blood issue!

Well, the Jehovah’s Witness organization prohibits so much stuff that makes youth growing up a living hell cause growing up you just want to do what other youth do. That is just psychology and nothing more. I do not consider that bad, especially if a person is weak minded. However, blood is a serious issue that needs to he addressed, if Jehovah is love and Jehovah is a perfect being and he suffered when Jesus die, how can he expect us to suffer like him, which would make him selfish, knowing he can resucitate right away instead of waiting years and years. I do not and refuse to believe Jehovah is a selfish unloving god. Abstaining from blood is good when you can do it as much as possible but when the life of a person is gravely in danger to the point of almost death due to a low count of RBC that is not a choice. Some elders say that a Jehovah’s Witness can take blood and others say that they can not. Which is it, there is confusion and that is not good for the religion.